Regular Member Hidr Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 She has had two treatments. Went today to get treatment number three and the Doctor took her off the study. Her cat scan from last week showed some of the lumps getting bigger so it is not working. They are going to do the same treatment now that they did last time. But the odds are very slim anything well work at all. The Doctor said there are a couple more they can try if this one don't work. Daddy said she is doing ok with the news and keeping it together and not to call her. Worried Ill say something wrong and set her off. I have decided to stop calling her anyways a few weeks ago. She rarely calls me but she knows my number and if she wants to talk she can call. She and I have never talked much and when we did it was cause I called her. So guess that is the way it is to be even now. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member number20121 Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 I'm so sorry to hear that. But I think maybe you should call her. You won't have many opportunities to talk to her anymore. I am SO sorry for your sister :( 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Kerstin Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 I'm so sorry. That is so hard. I think you should call her, too. Does she live far from you? Sometimes it's easier to talk in person. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Sakura Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 I'm so sorry Hidr What a terrible thing to have to deal with. My thoughts are with you and your family 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Hidr Posted December 14, 2010 Author Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 She called me. Right after I made the post. We just got off the phone. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Cynders Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 Hidr I'm so sorry. But isn't that a little miracle in itself that she called you on her own. I hope you two had a nice conversatio and I hope things are made easier for you and your family. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Rebecca Hampshire Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 So very sorry Hidr! Families are tricky sometimes, but I am glad you have spoken to her. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Captain Findus Goldfish Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 Oh I am sorry to read this Hidr. My thoughts are with you in this hard time. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Kateana Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 What a shame. It's hard to even know what to say really. I feel terribly for the situation not only your sister, but you, your parents, and the rest of those affected have to deal with. You guys will be in my prayers. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Hidr Posted December 14, 2010 Author Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 Thanks everyone your kind words mean so much to me. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member dogsbykat Posted December 14, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 14, 2010 Big hugs to you and your family Glad to hear that you guys got to chat. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member AMeyers Posted December 15, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 15, 2010 My thoughts are with you and your family. I am so very sorry. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supporter Helen Posted December 15, 2010 Supporter Share Posted December 15, 2010 the biggest of biggest cyber hugs to you hun.. don't let how you're feeling rob you of spending time with your sister. take it from someone who's knows, absence during these times can never be "made up for". my thoughts and prayers are with you hidr 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Chrissy_Bee Posted December 15, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 15, 2010 I'm so sorry Hidr, I've been wondering about her 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member johann_pond Posted December 15, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 15, 2010 Hidr, I am very sorry to hear the treatment wasn't workin. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and you family. I hope you had a nice talk with her. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member amynmitchell Posted December 15, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 15, 2010 Thanks for the update, even though it is awful news. She has been in my thoughts. Big hugs to you. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member Hidr Posted December 15, 2010 Author Regular Member Share Posted December 15, 2010 She only lives about a 20 minute drive but not fond of drop by company. We made plans to visit on Monday. She also wanted me to take her SS gift to her place of work on Monday too. So going to her place right after I get done with feeding the parrots Monday morning. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regular Member mjbubbles Posted December 15, 2010 Regular Member Share Posted December 15, 2010 I'm so glad to hear she called you. Family dynamics are tricky...I wish the best for all of you. mj 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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